26 Weeks

Today marks another milestone in my heart...we are six and a half months pregnant and I saw my midwife yesterday. FUN! Baby's heartbeat was 150-which is so very consistent each time we have heard the wqur wqur wqur from the womb! I measured 29 cm which is also consistent for me to measure larger than the weeks I am pregnant. So, all is well! We have another appointment scheduled for four weeks and then we will be down to the final ten.

NOTE: IF I delivered on my due date (and I don't) then today we would also be down to double digits on the countdown to Baby arriving. 99 today! But I go one week past my typical due date so next week we will be down to double digits.

ADDITIONAL NOTE: In the Marine Corps, deployments were a part of our lives and we would wave with tears burning our cheeks as Daddy went away. Again. So, during the first couple days to help with the adjustment, we would make paper chains: one link for each day he would be gone. Each night, we took turns tearing off a chain having managed to get through another day. At first, the chain looked endless. Most deployments were six or more months. A chain for each day almost looked hopeless but using this method was realistic for the children to see and it helped us get by. DOUBLE DIGITS was the big deal for us. It was the finale. We would begin homecoming plans and prepare for the big arrival (and another adjustment period.) I am so thankful that portion of our lives is RETIRED.

Creativity Test

My precious friend Kari had this test on her blog today. Always up for those self-test thingies, I clicked the link! Visit her site to take the test. This is what it said about how God knitted my creativity:

Happy Dabbler

About Me: Your creativity lies in everyday objects. You don't need to roll up your sleeves or embark on a major project to get creative. And in fact you may not have much time for grand artistic schemes. But you still find plenty of ways to express yourself in your daily life. It's just a natural reflection of who you are. You like to immerse yourself in another world, switch off and live another life...It doesn't take much to fire up your imagination.

How I Create: Life is one big catwalk. Dressing is all about expressing yourself. You are what you wear. It is all about being able to find your space to think...Being out in the wild offers organic beauty. Your strength lies in your ability to understand your medium, but pushing the boundaries to create an original, new look.

How I Think: Deep down, you're a free-thinker with a really positive take on life. The way you see it, the glass is nearly always half-full. You're pretty fearless and willing to take creative risks to achieve the right results. Your work tends to have a darker edge that adds real depth.

Aunt To Lunch

The girls (and of course, the two little boys) and I had my dad's sister over for lunch today. It was so nice having her here with us! We made the Layered Jell-O last night (it is a process!) and then prepared the lunch itself this morning. It is so fun to have them in the kitchen with me. They are learning so much about food preparation and come up with creative ideas to display the treasured treats we make our guests. (When I got married, I almost killed my husband and two of his Marine friends with the first meal I made for them! I had so much to learn!! The girls have a huge head start!) We had yummy Loaded Potato Soup with shredded cheese and crumbled bacon, chicken salad sandwiches on heart shaped bread, red grapes, veggie tray with ranch dip and then cheesecake or cookies for dessert. I don't want dinner, now. lol Layered Jell-O (pictured above)
2-3 oz pkgs of each of the following flavors of Jello-black cherry, orange, lemon and 1-3 oz pkg of lime Jello
1-12 oz can of Milnot

Use 9x13 dish and layer Jello as follows: First layer use 1 ½ cups boiling water & 1st pkg of black cherry Jello. Let each layer get solid before attempting to add next layer. The first one takes the longest to set up.

Second layer, use 1 cup boiling water to dissolve second pkg of black cherry and then when it has cooled add ½ cup Milnot. Spoon this mixture onto the first layer then refrigerate. Because the first layer is already cold, it does not take long for second layer to set up.

Repeat these layers the same way with each different flavor until the top layer is clear (meaning no Milnot) lime Jello. Here is a tip: while the first layer is in the frig, continuing on with the subsequent layer, I go ahead and mix up the next layer and let it come to room temp. That helps shorten the time it takes for each layer to set up.

DO NOT POUR THE JELLO INTO THE DISH AFTER THE FIRST LAYER OTHERWISE THEY MIX INSTEAD OF STAYING AS INDIVIDUAL LAYERS.

Chicken Salad
1 package chicken breasts-cooked and shredded
1 chopped green pepper
1 bunch cut-up red grapes
1 medium chopped red onion
1 package sliced almonds
1 cup chopped celery
1 small box raisins
Hellmann’s Mayonnaise-just enough to hold it together
A lot of black pepper-when you think you have enough, add some more.

Serve either on or with your favorite rolls or bread.

Oh, The Memory!

The girls and J have been memorizing Scripture verses weekly for months. When the older children were younger, I had a general plan for what verses we would memorize like the Romans Road and character trait study going along with our homeschooling lessons but I didn't have a life-long plan for them. We have one now! We have a list of 500 Bible verses (which will take nine years to complete memorizing one verse each week) and they are through 95 of them. I say they because the last six months of life for me have been pregnancy-brain and they have left me in the dust. I am still on verse number thirty-five. (They are in Proverbs and I am still in Psalm and that is the huge spread between us.) We are also learning the Westminster Shorter Catechism. They are on Question 22 and I am still on Question 19. My mind will simply not retain the information that I am taking in (or trying to take in) when memorizing these verses and answers to questions. Now, WJ just memorized the SECOND verse in the whole series so although he is slow on the upswing, once it kicks in, he can hide these precious words in his heart along with us. He can say Genesis 1:1 and 2:7 on his own with no prompting now. It makes me cry! No Greater Joy!

The Hudson Truth

What REALLY Happened On The Hudson

More Snow

WE HAVE MORE SNOW! We woke to over six inches of the stuff this morning! WOW I was sure that the whole town was sitting dormant. Nope! Even those crazy District 118 schools were open. I was going to call a Snow Day here at The Way Christian Academy but decided I would just have to make it up so we pressed on! (I am so glad that we did too as we accomplished so much!) We were to have ice skating lessons today but DH called me and said HE was cancelling them for us. To him, it just wasn't worth the risk of us getting out. I heartily agreed.

When I realized how much snow we had, the children and I aaaaaw'ed for my youngest niece (pictured above.) The last time she was to come play with WJ, the plans were cancelled so she didn't get to come over. I was so glad when I talked to my s-i-l that things were still a "go" and that the two little cousin-playmates would have an afternoon of fun. These two amaze me! They play so, so, so well together. Two little peas in a pod. The cutest!

Then, we had a wonderful family come by with shovels and cleaned off our driveway. (J bundled up and went outdoors to shovel along side them!) Isn't that amazing? What great friends God has blessed us with! Thank you all so much!!

I thanked the Lord for the beautiful snow, enjoyed the flakes falling most of the day as well as my niece being here with us, thanked the Lord for thoughtful, good friends that blessed us today and what do you know...I hear more snow is forecasted.

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Sewing

A friend started a dress for her daughter and then felt a bit overwhelmed with it so I helped her finish it on Monday. This is the final product! Her daughter wore it today and I told her she made it look so cute!!!

Now I have three daughters taking out their machines and material and the creative juices are flowing over here. I guess that means that I am going to have to get busy making ME some clothes, too.

We are going to have a skirt-sewing class with some of the girls! FUN

Another Potholder

By RJM

Baby Belly: 25 Weeks 3 Days

Is your guess BOY or GIRL?

Photo By ELM

Snow

So today: we have T Time together with other hsing families. I knew that the Weather Guessers had said four inches of the white stuff but they have been wrong-often-so off we go. We had a great time and then prepared to leave. (Quite the expedition in itself!) So I glance out the door and whined when I saw the stuff snow-storming down out of the sky. Not wrong today! I HAVEN'T LEARNED! I was instantly complaining in my heart to God about the snow! So I prayed and got that straightened out (I am sure it is just for the moment!) and then ASKED HIM to help the children and I get home safely. Ain't that just like a child...asking for something else right in the midst of the trouble I found myself in! Wow am I glad my Heavenly Daddy loves me!

My Potholders

By RJM

These are three of the potholders I have made this week. The red and white one is for my grandma to match her kitchen. The multi-colored one is for Joy. The middle one is a sample of a new technique I was trying.

It turned out nice, I think.

This picture is of the multi-colored potholder for Joy that is still on the loom. I am making a step-by-step instruction manuel with pictures I have taken to help others that want to learn how to make these.

Let It Snow

We woke on Sunday to a downfall of snow and my mood quickly went down with it. I began lamenting aloud over the SNOW! (In my heart is bad enough but make no mistake, everyone in my house knows how I feel about snow!) My DH was on the draw with an attempt of verbal redirection saying it was a beautiful snow and that it wasn't coming down sideways or sleeting while snowing. Bless his heart! I just grumbled that I hated THAT kind of snow even worse. I didn't want to go out in it but he got me safely to the van and off to church we went.

Opening of the service prayer: "Thank you Lord for the snow..." I didn't hear anything else. I was cut in my heart that He says to give thanks in all things. I was so quick to complain! How great would it be if my heart was so QUICK to thank Him?? He is so good to me all the while I deserve hell! How sad that I showed up to worship the King of Kings and still hadn't redirected my heart. He sure took care of that for me!

A Carrot, An Egg or A Coffee Bean

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl, pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl and then ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "What do you see?" "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did noting that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?" Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water. "Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?" Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength? Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart? Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Travels

T left today for a week of travels. He is visiting with friends in Michigan (Marquette area) until the Heart Conference begins in Wisconsin at Northland Baptist Bible College on Tuesday. When that concludes at the end of the week, he will go back to the U.P. to visit and then return home that weekend. He is anticipating snow boarding, skiing, and other winter sports in that snow-filled land. This is his third year attending this conference. I am excited as I pray for him while he is away. Matthew Henry sums it up well: What a good Master do we serve, who has made it our duty to rejoice before him! Let us devote with pleasure to the service of God that portion of our time which he requires, and count his sabbaths and ordinances to be a feast unto our souls. They were not to come empty-handed; so now, we must not come to worship God empty-hearted; our souls must be filled with holy desires toward him, and dedications of ourselves to him; for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.

Aunt M

We invited my aunt-my mom's sister-over for dinner tonight. We hadn't had her over to our home since we moved so I discussed with the girls what yummy dinner we could make for her. We had fun planning the meal and preparing it for her. Chicken Acapulco, Rice, Pea Salad, her recipe for cauliflower that I CRAVE and Pretzel Salad for dessert! She is beautiful on the outside--I remember always wanting to be like her when I was young. I would wear her shoes around the house, put her hair up in the wildest mess of a hair-do (or as our family says, a hair-don't) and she'd let me, paint her nails, strum her guitar that I always made sound terrible, play in her stationery and wax seals and beg her to let me try on her clothes. I must have been a pest during her high-school days. But wow, how lovely she is inside also. She has learned alot in life at the School of Hard Knocks and was genuine in sharing it openly and honestly with my daughters. It is so great to be able to talk about the Lord over the evening meal! She has completed the whole Bible in her daily reading and has started it again. It is so exciting to me as she shares this with our family...what encouragement it is to me that they hear others saying the same thing that we as their parents are training them to do! We had such a great time with her and didn't want the evening to end!

Why?

So, I just went to the gym with Eldest Son. It felt so good! Then promptly came home and ate a candy bar. What is UP with that?

Sewing

The deal with the sewing machine coming in the house now is that I am to the point of being forced to use it! Little I try to wear fits well anymore. Initially, I purchased a few "regular clothes" that were larger than the size I am currently wearing and that worked for awhile. It isn't working now and I still have four more months to get through. Flannel nightgowns are great while I am at home but aren't my choice for church or the grocery store. I tried several times to purchase actual maternity clothes but I can't make myself wear the current fashion! I really tried! It was terrible!

So, DH and T brought in my sewing machine from the garage! It is in a sewing cabinet and won't fit upstairs in our sewing room. Initially, I was sad about this but the girls have their machines up there so we can eventually all still work in that room together...when we get it organized! So THAT is the reason that I am not so sad that we can't fit it through the doorway into the actual sewing/craft room. I don't work well in messy rooms and quite frankly, I am overwhelmed by the organization needed in that room. (I still have four other projects I want to complete before I start looking through stored boxes of baby items to find out what we are going to need for Baby. Organizing the sewing/craft room isn't on that list!!)

R helped me and we cleaned out all of the drawers of the sewing cabinet (displayed in the family room!) and used the hose of the vacuum in each one before replacing the notions in the drawers. It looks so nice! Inside!! I am not really thrilled that it is in the family room. I was overwhelmed by the thought of HAVING to sew--it is typically something I would call a hobby and I love to do but it changes definition when it goes from enjoying it to HAVING to do it--and then the mess upstairs really was contributing to the issue.


I tried to hunt for "shiny" in the whole scheme of things and found a pattern. It was a good distraction from the situation. I could begin the mental imaging of material options and creating the actual clothes and get my mind off the situation frustrating me. I have the first two ideas of what I am going to make from the material I already have and called my mom to schedule a trip to Joann Fabrics! This may turn out to be fine after all!

Answers

I have been pretty emotional lately. I know a good deal of it is hormones and although I don't want to blame that I also needed to acknowledge it. Done. Typically, when a situation doesn't go as I had planned or intended, I can pretty much roll with it. (For clarification, I did say a situation. This doesn't include a series of them nor a long-lasting one!) God has done much honing in this area. The military life was the training ground!! I have had times since those training days and will this side of Heaven when I kick against the goads or balk at the situation but God has proven Himself faithful again and again and I can count on the Future Grace He abundantly gives. Well, last week the red van's radiator began to leak. Again. DH is great at accurately diagnosing and fixing our vehicles but living in town now has limited him with no space to do the actual work. (One time since we moved here, the van broke down away from the house and he fixed it in the parking lot where it was! He amazes me!) So, DH determined what was wrong with it and told me what he needed to do and the look in his eyes wondered where he'd work on the van. He eventually ended up deciding to take it "in" to be repaired due to the lack of space and cold, cold weather looming over him as well as the need of the family vehicle to be in working order much sooner than it was looking like it would be. Upon return of the van, the weather temperatures plummeted and it wouldn't start. Frozen something or another. Typically, I am at home. I am a keeper at home, I like homemade, we home educate, homebirth is my preference, encourage home businesses in our children--you get the point. I am fine to clear the calendar and just stay at home! (I wasn't always that way...further training from the Master!) Well, I did that. We kept busy at home! Then today. I had several errands I had put off and it was basketball day for J. Although T tried again and again to get the van running, it wasn't cooperating. I called my parents and they were "in town" so I asked them to come get us for the game. J had picture-taking with the team so I didn't want to have him miss it. Everyone else had to stay at home as there wasn't room for all of us in the vehicle. : / So I thanked the Lord for working things out to get him there. I had figured I would walk from the basketball game when it was over to the store next door to wait for DH to get off work. My parents called instead and picked us back up. I asked them to take me to the grocery store so I could get that job done while I waited for Hubby. All this worked out and I was thankful in my heart but I was so emotional over it. I am not sure why. The children were safe at home listing to me on their own before I left what all they planned to accomplish while J and I were away. J got to his game AND his team pictures. Everyone was well and safe. I even had the grocery shopping done and DH picked me up from the store when he was done at work. I don't know what bothered me so much about the day but the unsettledness continued through the evening. Giving thanks in all things can be so difficult to do. Still looking for the answer!

January 17th

MILESTONE! I am 24 weeks today so we are SIX MONTHS PREGNANT! I am thrilled again and again as my mind's eye tries to picture the face of this child. How exciting! I always have a gut feeling what Baby is so we usually have a name we are already calling Baby way before now. We just call this little person, "Baby." And this is fine, I guess. Something new and different. See, even with sixteen pregnancies, it is still different with each one. Initially, I thought that God had given us twins...a boy and a girl. Now that we have only seen one baby on ultrasound and my tummy isn't large enough for there to be two Munro's in there, I am all confused as to which kind this baby is! This doesn't cause me to waiver in wanting to know the sex of this wee one before delivery but I keep having dreams about birth and the big discovery. What JOY fills my heart!

Necklaces

What a day! We are having my parents over for dinner tonight and so the girls and I went over the menu to make certain we have everything we need for the preparation of said dinner. Ranch chicken, seasoned vegetables, Aunt M's cauliflower, apple salad and then brownies and ice cream for dessert. Okay, we determined what all we FORGOT when we shopped for this meal. lol Then somehow we managed to get distracted by Kari's shiny things...and wound up making necklaces all afternoon. I laughed when DH called and asked what we were doing. Uh........... I didn't think of something witty to cinch this all up in a nice homeschool project. (I have one working brain cell and it is pregnant!) I just said "making jewelry." I gotta get with it! lol

SO...the girls and I giggled and said we had so much fun making these that we will have to do this again. Soon! We might need to come up with a subject title in the school planner for this! So now we have the mess all cleaned up and put away and dinner started! Whew! And good thing Hubby called so he can stop and get the things we managed to forget at the store!!

As of Today

If Baby is born on May 15th, which is my prayer, then we are four months from delivery! EXCITING!

Hard Working Man

The Love of my Life

He is such a great provider for our family and takes such good care of us!
He is devoted, kind and caring and I am so thankful for my man!

Helpful Hint

AG was just in the kitchen chopping onions for our taco dinner tonight. The onion overwhelmed her eyes and she went running from the room looking for relief. Looking! ha ha Anyway! I quickly headed her off and escorted her to the kitchen sink. I turned on the water, took her two hands in mine holding her fingers onto the blade of the knife with mine, touched the knife to the spout of the faucet and the running water. She looked at me and said, "Mom's are amazing!" Ain't that great?!? I fix her burning eyes and she thinks I am amazing! Can I get her to recall this on the other side of puberty!?!?! A reminder that MOM'S ARE AMAZING!

Just another helpful hint: place a wooden spoon over the top of boiling potates and it won't spill over. Be careful not to have the flame too high to burn the spoon, though.

Memories

T drove us to ice skating lessons in the SNOW today and all was well. My sister-in-law cancelled her class so my niece didn't come home with us and was sorely disappointed that she couldn't come play with W. I asked my S-I-L to tell her that she could come next time. : ) My brother stopped by the rink when he saw us walking in. He had honked HELLO to us and then parked and came inside to talk awhile. It was REALLY NICE to see him. I am SO THANKFUL to God for my family! Our whole family is planning a Wii Game Day at my parents' home in February so we all are looking forward to that. Last year was spent together often having cookouts at my parents' farm and then most all of us playing games late into the night. Capture the Flag was by far the game of choice and we have wonderful memories from the gatherings we spent together last year!!

Upon returning home from skating, T is playing Lego chess with J --who is on cloud nine--and doing math with R. He shoveled the walk and the driveway and moved the vehicles around so he could get his truck off the street as his dad requested and cleaned off the vehicles. He is sure preparing to be a great husband and daddy! It is such a blessing to have his help and family participation!